Thursday, January 14, 2010

Ode to the Winter Mama! or "Will I Ever Get Out This Door?"!



INTRODUCTION:
An ode typically is a lyrical verse written in praise of or dedicated to someone or something which captures the poet's interest or serves as an inspiration.

THE ODE:
(best read aloud)
To The Winter Mama
The sun is shining on snowy day.
She loves her child, who wants to PLAYI 
The plans are set, it’s out they go.
 “Common, get dressed!”
She says . . . 10 times . .  in a row!
It’s -20 Celsius, humidity is high.
Layers and layers are what she needs 
To keep baby warm and dry.








Winter dressing skills she carefully teaches.
The little hand holds” inside shirt” and reaches
Up through jacket sleeve, just right!
“Look Mom, I did it!”
Success is a beautiful sight.






















                       Dressing is far from over,
There's still so much to do!  
Bibs on, hood on, zipper's zipped, and more
Before they're through!




























No air must get down little neck 
And, so, she wraps on scarf
Once, twice around and tied so tight
The little one squeaks, “Mom, I’ll barf!”




Now it’s time to put on boots 
They’ll keep little tootsies warm
“Foot in, push down.”
“Mom, it hurts!”
“Push down, HARD!” 
Mom replies with a scorn.







Still more pushing, 
this time, out the door.
Fresh air is such a delight!
She endured at least 7 heat flashes 
While dressing her child up right.
   

First stop, the garbage shoot.
She opens the hatch with 2 fingers.
No matter how lightly she touches,
The smells always seem to linger!

On the way to the elevator, she soon discovers 
They’ve forgotten baby’s transportation.
“The SLED!  Oh, my goodness!
Stand here - don’t MOVE!” Mama says 
And without hesitation
Runs, in dirty boots, to balcony
Grabs the sled 
And, back out the door
“This is it, last time - one more thing and we’ll sit at home, evermore!” 

As they start to exit the building
Baby yells with all her might
“Mom, I forgot my gloves!”
Mama hesitates, then answers,
 “Oh, you’ll be all right!”










A pang of guilt grips her heart 
As the cold air hits their faces.
And, so, back up the stairs 
Mom, with baby, races.





There they sit, in the basket,
all pink and “purty.”
Baby puts one on, the other drops to the floor
And is now, of course, all dirty.

Down the elevator, one more time
Hysterical laughter begins.
She thinks to herself, “Better to laugh than cry.”
As the journey comes to an end.





All Hail! Winter Mama!
She finally made it outside!
And she will say, if you ask her
It was worth it all, every sweat drop and hassle,
For sunshine, fresh air and QUIET, as her baby rides.

Now, it’s your turn!  
Write and link us to your best Winter Ode!

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Jan 7th - MERRY CHRISTMAS!


According to the “old” Julian calendar  (the one from Julius Caesar, yes, that far back)  Dec 25 is Jan 7 . . .  but only until the year 2100 . . . in that year, every thing will be on the same day again.  (ok, I admit, I don’t really get it either but it has to do with the mathematics of the calendars)
When the Catholic and Protestant world moved to the Gregorian calendar (named for one of the Popes), the Orthodox world stayed in the Julian.  

Russia didn’t adopt the Gregorian calendar until 1917!  
How does all this show up in modern-day Russia?  

It means that, just as most Russians are recovering from the New Year’s night, it is time to celebrate Christmas.  

So, as New Year’s is an after-thought to those of us in the West, Christmas is a blip on the end of a long, eventful week-off for most Russians.   Some may have another special meal, even fewer may attend a midnight Orthodox service - most do nothing.
Our family is blessed to be a part of a small group of Orthodox and Protestant Russian Christians in this country.  And, we as a group, celebrate Christmas on Jan 7th as the birth of Jesus, God in Flesh, the Savior of the World!  How I thank God for my Brothers and Sisters here!
Sophia had two Christmas parties this year - the first one was with Mom’s Day Out:


Sophia got to play “Mary” in the Christmas play!  She practiced holding Jesus, with a look of quiet dignity and love, every day for a week!  

She told Roma, “Joseph,” that they were married and he was her husband now!

We decorated Christmas cookies . . . and, of course, ate them!

Each child received a present from under the tree!


But, first, according to Russian tradition, each child should do something to “earn” the gift.  
Some said a poem, quoted a verse from the Bible, or sang a song. 
Sophia sang, “Silent Night.”  
Made me so happy to see her sing with such sincerity!

The next Christmas Party was at our local church:


The children played games . . .
Watched a cartoon about the birth of Jesus . . . 
Made a craft . . . 
And each child got a gift, in an American stocking, delivered by an elf!  

Sophia made friends with this elf and the whole group of Americans who come every year at this time to serve and love orphans in our area.  They also love on our church children, for which, I’m thankful!  They were amazed to hear Sophi speak English and soon became her good friends.


Speaking of friends . . .  here is Sophi and her friend, Dasha.  Dasha’s papa, Andrey, has an amazing story about how God found him and changed him.  Some day I’ll do an interview with him for you all!


And here are all the children with their stockings!


I don’t have photos, but Anton and I attended a one-woman play put on by one of the actresses from our local theatre.   It was a series of Bible stories - from Genesis to the Resurrection - all parts and narration done by this one woman. It was wonderful!
Our church had a special service on Christmas day and I had the privilege of singing beautiful Christmas carols with our choir, in Russian!  (some day I hope to post a video of our singing!)
I am thankful to God that we are a part of His Family and that our daughter is growing up among a group of people who Love Him and want to know Him more.  
Christmas is God’s Gift of Love - what a blessing to be included in that Love and to share that Love here in Smolensk, Russia!
Thank you so much for your prayer for all of us here!

Saturday, January 9, 2010

Happy New Year or “Who said eating after 6pm was bad for you?"



I have celebrated 10 “New Year’s” in Russia.  
(Good Night!  Did I just type that?  Unbelievable!)
I can’t say that they have all been the same, but they have certainly been similar - all have involved late-night eating before a television set!
New Year’s is the biggest holiday of the Russian year.  It has traditionally been celebrated even before the Soviet Union, but became the great national holiday under the communist government.  The first years after the Revolution it was banned and, then brought back, as a substitute for the Christmas celebration.  Many of the traditions we know of as Christmas practices, Russians think of in combination with New Year’s Eve.
Every year, since becoming a member of the Yastrebov family, I have celebrated the New Year with my in-law’s, in their apartment in Smolensk.  Little changed in those 4 years - we are a people of tradition!
Let me share with you our 2009-2010 New Year's  . . . . 
It officially started the week before. 
My in-laws put up their New Year tree, my mom-in-law went shopping, started cooking and baking, and we wrapped all the presents we would take to my in-laws’ on New Year’s Eve.
Anton and my father-in-law worked a half-day on the 31st.  Anton came home, had a snack, and, at around 8pm we got ready to go to his parent's apartment to see in the New Year!

Here is Sophia walking to the car New Year’s night - on our way!


When we arrived at my in-laws’ - the table had been set, the presents were under the tree, and the TV was on.  
New Year’s eve the major Russian channels have variety/song and dance programs all night - and no commercials!  
Every New Years’ celebration I have ever been to at a private home - the TV has been on all night!  
First thing - time to EAT!  
What will we ALWAYS find on our table?  The “extra’s” may vary, but the staples never change.
Salads: 

“Silotka pod Shube” translated “Herring under a Fur Coat”  - it is herring with onion, beets, and lots of mayo - and it is my husband’s absolute favorite!  (I, on the other hand, pass on this salad.)
“Oliviye” is my favorite salad - finely chopped potatoes, eggs, chicken (or ham), green peas, pickles - all covered in the much-loved mayo!  So delicious with a slice of black bread and a slice of cheese.  (This is the one I pile on top of my plate!) 
Bread:
Wonderful, fresh Russian “Borodinsky” black bread (like a molasses bread - SO GOOD!)
Melt -in- your- mouth fresh white bread (baton)
Main Course:
Meat “the French way” - beef steak that has been tenderized, cooked with onions,cheese and sour cream
Boiled new potatoes
Dessert:
Chocolate cake - with jam filling
Christmas cookies - Sophi and I contributed 
LOTS of Russian dark chocolate (the best in the world!)
Drink:
Russian compote - boiled fruit w/ a little sugar added
Tea
Coffee
Champagne! - at the strike of midnight!
As soon as the food is all ready (around 10 pm), Babushka Valya (Anton’s grandmother, Sophi’s Great Grandmother) comes from her room and we all sit down to eat.  We eat, talk, watch TV . . . slowly, savoring each course.

Just before midnight, the President comes on TV to congratulate the country - the clock strikes 12  - corks are popped and fireworks go off - all over this great country!




HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Next, and what Sophi has been waiting all night for . . . “Ded Marose/Grandfather Frost” comes!  Some families have a member dress the part and pass out gifts, some hire a “Grandfather Frost and Snow Maiden” to pass out gifts, and sometimes . . . in some families (like ours), the gifts just magically appear under the tree!
And, what was a leisurely family meal becomes a child’s dance!

And, little girls, all dressed up, twirl in a blaze of light - passing out packages . . . 


Because maybe there’s a new, stuffed “like real” bunny (just like Velveteen Rabbit) under there - and maybe it has it’s own special house that Dedushka made!









And, just MAYBE there is a doctor’s kit, with a doctor’s smock . . . just like the little girl dreamed of!














But, soon, the dance and dancer lose energy.
2 o’clock in the morning silliness sets in ...



 And, it’s clear to everyone that it is time to go home!
HAPPY NEW 2010 YEAR!





Friday, January 8, 2010

Christmas, New Year’s, and Christmas again!



Whew!  Just taking a minute to catch my breath . . . it has been a busy holiday season. 
Our family celebrates Christmas on Dec 25th (as I grew up doing in the States) and, then, we celebrate New Year’s Eve with Anton’s family (as he grew up doing in the Soviet Union), and finally, we celebrate Christmas, again, on Jan 7th with our Russian Christian Brothers and Sisters.
We party - multi-cultural, multi-lingual, and multi-confessional!  WHOO HOO! 
I really do love it!
I was thinking about all of this the other day  . . . about our different celebration practices.  And I discovered a difference that I had never really noticed before.  See if you can follow my thought train . . . 
In the States, we start celebrating Christmas at the end of Nov/ beginning of Dec.  

We have parties and fun and say to each other, “Merry Christmas” until Christmas Day . . . then, the very next day, everything slows down (and comes down.)  

New Year’s is pretty much an after-thought for most of us.

We celebrate before for the holiday and on the holiday - and have a big “let-down” afterword.
In Russia, most put up their New Year tree (like our Christmas tree) the week before Christmas.  They work 1/2 day on New Year’s Eve - come home, and start getting the food ready for the New Year’s table (more about this later.) 

Then, most of the country has the next week off (until the 11th)  - and this is the party week!  

People rarely congratulate each other before the holiday. If they do, it is just during that week before and they say, “I congratulate you on the up-coming New Year holiday.”  

Only on the very strike of the clock and afterward (for the whole month) do people say, “Happy New Year” (and this way of congratulating is with all holidays, really.)  

Slowly the celebrations wind down . . . after the 7th (Orthodox Christmas) people get back on a regular schedule and finally, it’s back to work.  

Russians start with a Holiday BANG and party for a week until we’re all really tired of the holidays!  There is very little post-holiday depression - we’re all so tired, we’re ready to go back to “real life.”  
Not sure what these differences say about us... 

I would be very interested in hearing your ideas. 
                      
Please leave a comment! 


Our own little “Snow Maiden.”

Monday, December 28, 2009

My New Favorite Toy!



Nothing better in a child’s life than discovering all the cool things your new Christmas toys can do!  

I remember those “toy coma’s” - lasted for hours, nothing could (or should) distract me.  
That after-the-morning-gift-carnage “glow” . . . 
Well, as a fully (and, some might add, fluffy) grown adult, I’m experiencing some of those same feelings again.  
Yes, I have a NEW TOY - and it is so much FUN!
Do you know about the photo-fun site, Picnik?   Oh my goodness!  Just look at what you can make there:

Wonderful collages of your daughter’s first look at the Atlantic Ocean - with her cousins leading the fun.

More collages of family fun. . .  learning hurricane storm survival skills . . . in the beach front house . . . on the beach . . . in the actual storm.  (I REALLY thought the sliding glass doors were going to implode as the house rocked on the beams)

Or a lovely gift for your mother-in-law.

How about some extra-special gift tags? 
These are going to be so much fun New Year’s Night.  
(more about this Russian holiday to come . . . ) 
Plus, there are tons of cool editing tools, and special fonts. and borders, and stickers, and. . .  the creative possibilities are limitless!  
It is difficult for us to send Christmas presents to our family in the States from Russia . . . somehow, they all end up under “Olga the Postal Worker’s” New Year’s tree.  (ok, ok, that’s probably not really fair - but you get the idea . . . NOTHING thru the mail)  But this year everyone on our list got a beautiful photo collage - sent thru e-mail!   And the best part was it was “created”  “home-made”  in a neuvo-tech kinda way!  LOVE IT!
A BIG thank-you to my friend Tina for introducing me to my new toy!  
And, really, if you love pics, you gotta see Picnik!
I’m just gonna warn you now . . . new toy “coma” coming your way!
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